We can only feel our own sorrow for what we have lost. This is a very common reaction to grief.
But what if?
What if for one hour a day you focused on finding things to be grateful for? According to Robert Emmons, the world’s leading scientific expert on gratitude, reveals why gratitude is good for our bodies, our minds, and our… Continue reading
Celebration and honoring of the dead
If you are not familiar with the term “Dia de Muertos” in translates in English to Day of the Dead.
In Spanish and Native American tradition, as well as in others, it is time to honor the beloved dead with altars “offrendras” flowers, family get togethers and food.
I decided to visit a locally owned Hispanic restaurant and market because they were giving talks about the celebration and the tradition behind it. I was told that many believe in honoring the memories of their family that have died… Continue reading
By guest author, Ruth Mancini
I’ve always missed not having a dad.
My parents separated when I was young, and then when I was 15, my dad was hit by a car and died. There’s always been a gap in my life that could never be filled.
In the early 1990s I split up from my long term partner and the pain of my father’s death and the loss of that relationship hit me hard all at the same time. A friend once told me, “When something bad happens it drags up everything bad that has ever happened to you”… Continue reading
Becoming an Orphan, By Carolyn Ridder Aspenson
There is a secret club no one really talks about. It’s the orphan club.
I don’t mean orphan in the traditional sense, where a child is born and the parents are not a part of the child’s life. This club of orphans is the club one joins after both of his or her parents have passed. Not everyone becomes a member of this club but many do and those that enter before others don’t discuss it with anyone who isn’t a member, at least not in any detail.
My mother passed in June… Continue reading
Often a tragic death brings out the strength and passion of others
I have been involved with grief support since 2007 and have witnessed so many amazing transformations that have come from tragic deaths of loved ones. People who have somehow found their resilience to journey through their grief and serve others.
I’ve often pondered how any of us find the strength to help others as we walk down the path of our own grief and I discovered that for many, tragedy can bring out our passion for serving others. Serving is a trait we probably always had but… Continue reading